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BDSM honeymoon is over

Submitted by blogbdsm on Tue, 09/01/2015 - 15:22

In the beginning Master-slave partnership is mixed of excitement, slavery and newness.
This is fun, but as with any relationship that you want to extend for a lot of time, the honeymoon isn’t going to last. If you want extend your relationship with your slave, you needs to keep a few things in mind as the Master.
The reason why BDSM relationships begin to fail is becouse you fall in monotony. This is especially the case of a novice slave. Maybe your slave needs to be given other tasks or you need to change the way you train your slave.

The challenge of bdsm training is that you’re trying to mold a slave into a certain form you have in mind. the slave needs to be challenged to do more, to work harder, and to see just how much pain they can take. As the Master, you need to set new objectives for your slave in each session.

A simple change in your sessions can make a bdsm relationship feel more exciting. Yopu go with your slave in a hotel room or to another location with which you and your slave aren’t familiar. This will help the slave feel as though they are not in control, which they aren’t. As a result, the slave will need to be more obedient and they will need to be even more subservient to find out what you want in this new situation.

At same time it might be time to reassess your relationship and the objecties. Perhaps your slave wanted a short flirt and and not a long term situation.
BDSM training isn’t simple and it isn’t easy at times. But when you keep communication lines open and creativity as a priority, you can avoid that lull or that boredom in your relationship.

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