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humiliation as mean of bdsm training?

Submitted by blogbdsm on Tue, 07/19/2016 - 19:11

Humiliation is a good way to start for the idea of ​​controlling a slave by a master in a bdsm relationship, but this doesn't mean there aren't other equally valid ways to train a slave in a bdsm relationship and that these ways are as effective as the humiliation.

The problem is that many Master use this tool without having very clear why using this system to train their slaves. The effectiveness of this tool is very dependent on slave who has opposite, from the personality she has and from this point of view is important before proceeding to the training of a slave establish a dialogue with her so that there is a mutual understanding of what the slave is expected of a bdsm relationship and what is expected of the host, as often I have said as in any interpersonal relationship, dialogue is also very important in that bdsm,

Some problems using humiliation as a means of training a slave can arise when the slave took the abuse and humiliation that the 'marked it in the family or other relationships. So when you start to humiliate a slave for her training need to be sure of what you do and especially if it is the most appropriate to reach the objective which we set ourselves.

In assessing what should be emphasized that the humiliations aren't all equal and above can have different gradations: there may be public humiliation like having the presence of his master with their friends, or in a more extreme way be forced to masturbate in public, or humiliation private type to see you reduced to make the dog, or see you forced to make you pee roofs lean against by your landlord.

The humiliation may also be verbally chastising the slave who did something wrong, or insult the slave with words that don't appreciate being told.

But the one who should be careful is that the humiliation aim isn't to hurt from a psychological point of view to your slave, but let her know that has become your slave and you should get a view of assecondarvi in ​​every thing.

 Humiliation is also a practice that many slaves love, because other to the training, takes over your power struggle to impose on them, and allows them to feel like slaves and  object.