Le schiave sono normalmente consce che affrontando l’addestramento stanno andando incontro a una sfida stimolante, ma difficile. Non importante se una schiava ha un master da un po’ di tempo o solo da un breve periodo, ma ci sarà il momento in cui si chiederà se il padrone starà per fare loro del male o se sono veramente in grado di soddisfare il loro padrone. Questa paura è naturale e può essere utilizzata per continuare l’addestramento. Il delicato equilibrio tra fiducia e paura va affrontato spesso tra padrone e schiava e non può essere affrontato senza il dialogo.
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it’s my first day of abstinence and is also the first time that I write what happens to me. I have never been good at keeping a journal, but certainly this is something very different: I do not do for mehappy to do but My master. That is his will that this morning I abandoned my usual clothes and I slipped in others in which I did not feel really comfortable: white lace bra, a white silk blouse semitransparent, a black cardigan, knee wool lightweight black brogues and a miniskirt burgundy rather short, very short. I did not put my usual slip coordinated as my master wants..
S.S.C.- Is a theory based around the model that whatver one does in their lives when in regards to another partner it should always be mentally, emotionally, and physically safe. This was the preferred model in the posting in question and I choose to respond to it here:
t is an acronym that contains a concept just heard from a large part of the BDSM community that identificala security framework within which the activities should be carried out BDSM .In particular, it identifies a responsibility towards the so-called Master of the slave . In Detail:
Healthy : This term refers to the need to safeguard the physical and psychological integrity of the slave
Safe: the activities must take place in safety , having been observed all necessary precautions in order
It’s a good thing to push the boundaries of your BDSM experience from time to time because it helps you both create a more exciting experience. By pushing past your limitations, you not only get a more intense experience, but you will also get a greater rush of adrenaline. In addition, exploring your own boundaries with someone else will enhance your trust in each other, and it willhelp you both to have a stronger relationship as a result.
If you’ve just started experimenting with BDSM, chances are good that you’re just naturally curious about what else is out there and what else you can do to make things even more fun. But if you’ve only been playing around with it for a few weeks, it might be a better idea to continue learning before you start making things more intense for both parties in the relationship. Right now, your goal should be to learn about the basics of BDSM – communication, limitations, and whatever sorts of play you are both interested in.
Pain is a beautiful thing in BDSM, especially when it’s done right and this takes practice, especially when the slave and the Dom aren’t accustomed to each other.
Before you administer any pain , you need to start off with a discussion of what sort of pain is possible, what is a limit, and what is simply not as option.